How To Support A Grieving Friend

How To Support A Grieving Friend
How To Support A Grieving Friend
If you have a very close friend who is grieving the loss of a loved one, it can be very difficult to see them in sorrow. You may feel like you are at a loss for words and may not know how to offer them comfort.


Many people can feel very awkward in such situations and end up not providing any comfort to their friend in a time when they may need a shoulder the most. Here are some things you can do to support a grieving friend:


  • The very first thing to do is to decide what kind of help the person needs and then extend your support. The help that you offer could be financial, emotional support, or it could be in the form of some other assistance they need. It’s best to observe the situation first and then offer your help.
  • Never make any empty promises and even before you speak with your friend, be clear about the kind of help you can offer. If you commit that you will be there for a person, you need to make sure that you have the time for it.
  • The support that you offer should not be forced, and it’s a good idea to observe and determine exactly what kind of help your friend needs. Make sure that you don’t overwhelm or judge the person in any way and have the good sense to accept their wishes.
  • There may be other people, friends or family members that may be there to provide your friend their support too- so when you are offering your help, try to fill in any gaps that may exist.

Doing these things will help ensure that your friend has some support and that you are able to do your bit for him or her. If you have any questions about the cremation process or about planning a service don't hesitate to contact us at Simply Cremations and Funeral Services.

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